If you want to listen to Rock Music, you can't tune into a country music station on the radio and expect to hear rock. Rock music is on a different station or stated another way on a different frequency.
If we want a result in our life do you think you could get it if you were operating on a different frequency? If I want to call my father but keep dialing my friend John's number, will I ever connect to him?
Bob explains beautifully in this video how you are doing this daily, expecting something, but operating on a completely different frequency.